How social workers make this season memorable for children
While Christmas is famously a time of joy for many children and families across the UK and around the world, it can be a challenging period for some due to financial pressures or difficult family dynamics. Lisa Hackett, Frontline’s chief social worker, shares how social workers support and care for children and families during this festive season.
When I was working in residential care, I took a young girl to see Disney on Ice. She had been living in a children’s home since the age of 11 and had endured numerous hardships, including criminal and sexual exploitation. As we sat in the arena, I saw her completely captivated by the performance – her eyes sparkled with excitement, and for a moment, she was just a child lost in the magic of the show. At the end, she turned to me with a smile and said, “This is the best day of my life.”
That moment stayed with me. Moments like this are why social workers do what we do. For a brief time, that young girl’s worries melted away, and she got to experience the joy and innocence of childhood that so many take for granted.
For many children supported by social workers, the festive season isn’t filled with excitement and anticipation. Instead, it’s often a time of uncertainty, anxiety and emotional distress. They may face uncertainty about what Christmas will look like due to financial pressures, difficult relationships with parents, or being in care. They often miss out on the familiar traditions and the unbridled excitement that their peers enjoy. These challenges can overshadow the magic of the season and make it difficult for children to feel secure or valued.
Social workers play a pivotal role in supporting children to have a memorable and positive Christmas, even in difficult circumstances. There are many ways that social workers help to make sure children experience the joys of the season. For some children, this support means helping them process difficult emotions – talking about worries, easing anxieties about school Christmas activities, or helping them navigate complex family interactions. For others, it’s about making practical arrangements, like coordinating transport for visits, booking taxis, or ensuring they have a gift to exchange. These efforts create stability and a sense of normalcy, showing children they are cared for and valued.
Every child deserves the opportunity to make happy memories, to laugh without worry and to feel the wonder of the festive season. These moments of joy are not just fleeting – they are the building blocks of belonging and hope. This Christmas, we can all do our part to ensure every child gets the chance to make memories they’ll treasure. Whether it’s through a thoughtful gesture, a gift or simply offering time, we can give children the most powerful and meaningful gift of all, the gift of feeling seen and valued.
Please consider donating to Frontline today. You can help social workers continue their vital work, bringing joy and stability to children not only this Christmas but throughout the year.